Desired Qualification to get married ...

I have just pen down my life's

I am a Hindu - Brahmin girl , 27 year old ,Convent educated , Leo , a Commerce Graduate , also have completed my Masters in Business Administration , qualified G.N.I.I.T , and now I am pursuing my L.L.B final year , I have almost 5 yrs of work experience on the H.R. role from Management Trainee to Senior Executive HR.. with Financial , Environment and Manufacturing (Automobile and Electronics ) Industry .

I am fair , Smart , 5 ft , lively , talkative , friendly person who can manage household activities with the professional responsibilities.
I belong to a small n beautiful city from Nothern India... my Family's earning is agriculture.
My family comprises of Dadi, Father , Mother , Brother , Sister in law and a neice. small n happy famliy.

I passed my Graduation in 2002, since then my Mom started searching for a prospective groom for me .
I got studio photographs clicked , in Saree, suits , all earrings , make up on ... flashy lights to look beautiful ..
I never wanted to get married ... but the search was on n on n on..... I am still in a habit of gaining and reducing weight on and off so I may not look the same as my pics say , or at times I used to look better then the pics....
Firstly as I am just 5 ft ,which is considered as short height , then I am not thin or lean .... which are the two most important criteria for choosing a girl for marriage even in 21st century , in India at least.

I have stayed in NCR for my GNIIT, Summer training of MBA and job etc and have always worked in Gurgaon so i travel a lot , meet new people, different types of experiences. I can judge guys , what is going in there mind. whether they want to seriously marry , or just doing it for the sake of their parents , or looking for a handsome dowry.

After 12th , I promised my self that I will study hard and will be on my own so that my parents wont be worried or wont be disappointed due to me . But ,I never knew .... studies, smartness ,designation, managing house hold and being broadminded wont give me enough help or benefit to get a gud guy for marriage .
Till date I would have met at least 5-7 guys for matrimony ,all with different mindsets ,mentality etc etc . some were interested in dowry , some wanted a tall height , or thin and lean figure ....

Few days back I got engaged to a guy earning 12 lakh annul whose mumbai based ,Regional head - projects in Construction consultancy , and I broke my engagement just after 10 days coz before engagement they never informed or told anything to my parents after asking bout the same gaian n again... and later after engagement they asked my parents 12lakh of hard cash + a long list of demands and wanted to hide this whole dialogue from me.

This guy was very clever,he was so sweet and caring and behaved in a manner that any girl would think of him as a life partner, but actually he had long plans in his mind for dowry... I dont say dowry is bad... but demand when it is necessary .... when a girl is qualified and working then demanding dowry is sick...
He esclated that my Mom tried to esclate him against his Mom.i fianaaly could not take all the crap and i told him that i am not interested for this relation and i backoff, coz i dont want to play with my life and repent on my decision of getting married to him whole life after marrige.

Thanks to Ganpati I am saved .

But , I wonder if anyone can suggest me what is the DESIRED CRITERIA OF GETTING MARRIED. after all my educational and professional Qualifications and ll qualities which I posses.
............waiting